Do both of you
talk and listen in your conversations?
Do you still get
to spend time alone when you want to?
Are you proud of
each other's accomplishments and ambitions?
Does each of you
have friends of your own you can spend time with?
Does each of you
have interests besides each other?
Can you state
particular characteristics of each other which
you love? Can you give examples of them?
Do you like
yourself when you are with this person?
Do you feel
comfortable saying "no" to this person?
Do you treat each
other as equals?